SWEET DREAMS
DEAR DR. ELLIS: I'm hitched. Consistently my significant other "advises" me when it's the ideal opportunity for us to turn in. This can be at whatever time from 9:30 to 11:30 p.m. In the event that I let him know that I'm prepared for bedhe gets furious. On the off chance that he's prepared to get intobed, and I need to complete a book I'm understanding, he gets irritated. As indicated by him, wedded men and ladies ought to go to bed "together," period! It is dependably on his timetable. Obviously, we have goneto bed furious ordinarily. How would we figure it outwithout getting irate and resentingeach other? TIRED OF BEING TIRED, Des Moines, Iowa